It's kind of hard for me to tell based off the photos because this is hard to capture in a photo properly but I'll take your word for it that the cantilever is off (I've tried capturing this same exact type of photo many times). While both are important, there is the L/R angle of the cantilever as well as the angle of the diamond profile within the record groove. While they should be the same, they aren't always necessarily, and the angle of the diamond supersedes that of the cantilever if you were to choose one that is more important which effects sound. If your diamond still looks like it's equally within the groove on all sides while playing, I wouldn't worry about it and it should be fine. The device used to test for a L/R diamond profile imbalance is called a fozgometer -if you are using anything other than your eyes to calibrate azimuth.
Still, many would simply consider the cart defective if the angle at which the diamond makes contact within the groove is different than its corresponding cantilever angle. VTA is properly set by equalizing the diamond profile within the groove (from front to back, not by making sure the tonearm "looks" level from the side) while azimuth controls the (left to right) diamond profile "roll" within the groove as well. In this way, minute adjustments can be made to optimize playback of non-perfect diamond profiles within the groove. Front, back, left, right diamond profile adjustments allow 360 degree adjustment and are possible for tables with these additional adjustments (which not all have). If your table has VTA or azimuth adjustment you can try optimizing it if the diamond isn't already perfectly seated equally on all sides, but since the seller offered a refund, you may as well save yourself from worrying about it and replace it. Good luck with whatever you decide. All in all, the effect should be relatively minor. Usually what I notice with the issue of a diamond seated unevenly within the groove (especially with regards from right to left) is that one channel will be slightly louder than the other.