Also, when I tried to desolder the components on the circuit board I am practicing on, the tips were all bent shut onto the circuit board. So even though I got rid of the solder, I had difficulty taking out the components because of that. In some cases, the green surface of the board just peeled off.
When the pool of solder is liquid, you use the tip of the iron or some sort of heat resistant tool to lift it up. If they're really tight, I use the tip of an x-acto. You just have to get a feel for the timing. That's one of the reasons why the weller iron tips I have available to me generally have a screwdriver shaped tip.
You can also push on the lead or component from the other side while the solder is liquid, then you don't have to touch the molten puddle, possibly cooling it.
what's the point/connection?