I don't know anything about the Hiraoka mat, but when you say stiff, do you mean hardened/crunchy or simply not super flexible? My Osawa replacement mat isn't exactly supple, but it was an improvement over the original mat. You want something heavy - the platter isn't the world's heaviest, and rotational inertia is a good thing. But I'm not sure I'd pay an arm and a leg to get the original mat, especially if your Hiraoka is fine - which it may not be, but stiffness itself isn't inherently bad - look at all the glass, copper, and acrylic mats out there.