Anybody remembers a Paul Newman movie where he is in prison and has just learned that his mama died? He strums a banjo (or ukelele) and sings a song I've never hear again but i still remember.
It goes like, "plastic jesus, plastic jesus, riding in the dashboard of my car. Hail mary full of grace won't you find a parking space, riding in the dashboard of my car." or something like that.
Cried like a baby, yes i did, though the lyrics wasn't even close to the situation of a dead mother. I'd like somebody so sing like that for me when I am dead and gone. Yeah...that's it. Everyone in my funeral has to cry a river. Everyone mourns that I am dead by singing sad songs.