To be honest, I really don't understand your logic at all. You're considering old integrated amps which are obviously completely analogue with no DAC or USB connections etc., but as soon as mixers are mentioned you want a DAC, USB connectivity etc. Why? A simple 4 channel analogue mixer will do what you want, and a compressor could be used at the insert point or via another send/return loop. Yes, you'll have extra channels which (probably) won't get used, but so what? They're cheap enough for it not to matter.
Fair points... so here's what I think.
I could use a vintage amp with speakers as a second system, and their sound is considered warmer and less analytical than the sound of modern equipment. Two things that are important. The sound I work with is often not very good, and compressed, so it needs some improvement, it needs to sound more natural. Tone control is essential, but not enough sometimes.
If I go with a mixer, I won't be able to use it for anything else. Which isn't a huge problem as long as value for money is good enough, and I don't need a bunch of other things to make it work, and the functions I actually need and use are not a fraction of what I'm ending up paying for. I stood in a store with a sound guy, told him everything he needed to know, and he only had one big mixer with loads of tiny knobs that he could recommend. All others had some issue. Compressors have the usual wide rack format, which is not the best for tabletop applications, and the sound I get is already compressed, which is NOT good, and it's actually not safe. The sound needs to be made more natural, richer, fuller. So I need the full range, but with a limiter that protects me from volume spikes.
I also clearly wouldn't expect a vintage amp to have a DAC, because it's not possible. With new equipment, I think the expectation is realistic, esp. with mixers. There are many mixers with a USB in, so I think I'm not being unrealistic. The problem with them is that they are primarily not intended for monitoring but mixing, so some of them e.g. mix channels by default and there is no way to NOT mix them, and they may not have tone control on the monitor out, etc.
BUT... if you can recommend a few things, I'll have a look. I would even call, to be honest. I really want to find a solution.