Unfortunately I don't have many friends.
What I ended up doing was I found a nearly new Grace F-9 on ebay. I got it came from overseas, and took a few weeks to get here, but I finally got it installed Tuesday night. I am pretty sure I have it set up properly. It sounds fantastic! I have noticed that it is very sensitive to dirty records, at least more than others I have heard. The music sounds much more full and detailed than it did before.
I am getting some slight distortion on the vocals only on some of the inner tracks on a record, so I am not 100% sure I aligned it perfectly, but I have it very close. I'll have to keep playing with it. Unfortunately there aren't many places around here that deal with that sort of thing, and the one that does wanted $175 to set up a cartridge. Taking the KD-500 anywhere isn't exactly pleasant either, with the synthetic granite base it probably weighs about 40 or 50 pounds.
Thanks to everyone for their input!