So it comes down to either own fleawatt amp or pair of monoblocks. Anything in-between will kill tweeters when a Crescendo explodes in a tune.
I'd say use an amplifier that produces enough power for your needs, or even beyond, and then learn to listen for audible signs of speaker distress. If you use a smaller amp than you'd like, listen for frequency balance changes and know when to turn it down, or be content with what the amp can do.
I have amps ranging from 7wpc to 200wpc @ 8 ohms, and they perform fine within their design parameters. I've blown a few car audio speakers, but never a home audio speaker.

