I tend not to believe that if one paid 4 figures for a new turntable, they would be disappointed in comparison with finding a well groomed vintage TOTL unit at $200 instead.
Why? Because one is new product and the other is somebody else's old beater being moved on.
The party line around this place, however, is you need to spend at least a few thousand to get anything that would be equivalent to something back in the day in decent shape.
I might actually believe that statement if those making such claims have actually tried doing it, or could cite examples on what they are talking about. When pressed, they back off and post snarky remarks instead.
Here's another theory that should be presented side by side with the one you list above: People whose budgets dictate the $200 vintage table over the four-figure tables convince themselves they sound as good or better because they have no recourse. Like the owners of expensive tables you reference above, we're rarely treated to examples of their first hand experience with both. They'll cut and paste wow and flutter specs, but that's all we get.
I ran two turntables side by side for years. One being a rotating cast of new tables, the other being a Technics 1200MK2. The Technics was straight up better then the Rega RP-1 that cost more then it did, no contest. With less expensive cartridges it held its own vs. the Clearaudio Concept, but the CA had a higher ceiling with better cartridges.
When I got the VPI Classic, I moved the Technics down to the basement and have since given it to a friend. There just wasn't any reason left to have two tables for variety, one was just clearly much better then the other.
I'm not sure how the VPI would compare to the true high end tables from Denon or Yamaha, but its sort of a moot point as these are quite expensive now as well. I'm very curious about owning a refurbished 50's idler like a Garrard or Thorens, but I wager this is more a matter of different then better.
The moral of this story? The dogma on new vs. vintage is wrong on both sides.