What I loathe is the normalization of loathesome traits.
The only constant is change. I left a few months before the wall came down after another three years in military residence. It has changed in many ways and no longer frozen in cold war era circumstances. I remember folks complaining about Turkish gastarbiters in the 1970s, but someone has to do the work nobody wants while the replacement male generation comes of age to fill in for the one largely decimated in a futile promotion of an unacceptable international order.
Germany is rehabilitated and a full member of the world, no longer the cold war postwar standoff European outpost of NATO, and taking on the responsibilities of an independent mature society.