Mister Pig
Pigamus Maximus
I didn't waste my time trying to read you OP either. I got the gist of it.
1. Most so called high end audio equipment isn't any better than what some derogatorily refer to as mid-fi. Walk into a room blindfolded and listen to any "super' audio equipment and you will discover several things. A. If you are at all familiar with what real sounds like, you'll know what you are hearing is a hi fi system. The best of it isn't up to real. B. You can't tell what equipment you're listening to, usually even equipment you own yourself if the room and recordings are unfamiliar. A lot of "adjustments' can be made to alter the sound of equipment deliberately. Equalizers are very effective at this. A valuable tool in the right hands, more usually a disaster in the wrong ones.
2. Methods of manufacture of most high end audio equipment drives costs up. Failure to use off the shelf components. No economy of scale. Manufacturing in garage type operations. BTW, most high end audio equipment could never meet any recognized manufacturing standards such as ISO 9000 or ANSI. What you get is anyone's guess because recognized quality control processes have not been followed. Much high end equipment is of ordinary manufacturing quality, some is much worse. You really don't get what you pay for and your unit may perform very differently from the prototype or demo model.
3. Most high end audio designers/manufacturers/sellers have an overinflated sense of what their products are worth, what their "work" is worth. Most of their so called "research" is little or no more than tinkering until they get something they like better than their last effort. Suddenly that's a breakthrough.
4. A lot of money is spent on useless cosmetics. Audiophiles often buy with their eyes and by reviews, not with their ears. Why is such visual perfection so important? Perhaps those who still are audiophiles have OCD. Try to find anything used on e-bay that doesn't have its share of scars and blemishes that invariably come with life in the real world.
5. If you really wanted to and you are an engineer or technician, you could "reverse engineer" a copy of the essence of most high end audio equipment and build your own copy of it for about 5% of the retail price. If you can't make an exact copy of say an exotic loudspeaker you can make a close copy that is equivalent. There's no real magic in any of this.
Ordering food in a restaurant must be difficult also. Lord knows that those veggies and a few ounces of meat is worth no where what the finished meal costs. All that produce and ingredients is off the shelf too.....nothing custom about it. Oh man, lets not even get into clothes..... You do buy clothes don't you?
Regards
Mister Pig