What fuse lamps / zener diodes did you order? There is a service bulletin posted in another thread for the later models that use the same setup. When a lamp burns out too much current goes through the diode and causes it to short. This causes problems with burned PCBs, resistors etc. Your unit was built with 12V 500mW Zener diodes and 12V 150Ma fuse lamps. You should use 12V 1000mW Zeners and 12V 150mA fuse lamps for replacements.
I think Deoxit D5 is good for switches. Don't use it on slide controls though. Only F5 fader lube.
I wouldn't but the relay yet. Not until you can get undistorted sound from the preamp. When you decide to, I think I might know a number that is available now. Post the number of the original part though.
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