I didn't care 2 cents what the response might have been.
Kudos to all of you who are the types that don't care if you know a single soul at an event like this and will have a great time and get much from the experience as a factor of your personality type, age and life experience.
Not everyone is like you.
In all of your attempts to somehow counter or minimize the authenticity of SubWolfer's experience because it wasn't YOUR experience is to miss the point of this. It will only limit the growth and scope of this venue in the future.
Many have harped on the fact that he spent only an hour at the Fest, questioning how he could have really experienced all the rooms. My guess is that if he walked into a room with a group of people, feeling like he had interrupted their conversation and no effort was made on their part to reach out to him and involve him, he probably wouldn't last more than a minute or two. Repeating that experience from room to room means that he could have seen a lot of rooms in an hour. If that had been my experience I probably wouldn't have had a generally overall warm fuzzy feeling about the event either.
Events like this have to decide what they want to be. If you want it to be purely a reunion type event among old friends then that is what it will be. If you want to use the event to promote the forum and grow, you have to accept that a concerted effort needs to be made to welcome and include the newbies. Especially those who don't find it easy to assimilate based on personality, age difference and other reasons that might keep them from making the first step to reach out and connect. I am sure that your sponsors would prefer the latter option.
Accepting these shortcomings of the event is not to minimize or criticize the event or the hard work and efforts of those who put so much of their time into making it happen. It is taking an honest look at what has a happened and using that analysis to make future events an even bigger success.
Events of this type on a larger scale always do a post event critical analysis and ask for the comments of attendees. The comments from those who offered negative remarks are those which are focused on most as those are the ones that will help the most in the future. Everyone likes to be patted on the back but to grow you have to be able to take criticism in a positive way.
And that's my dos centavos...
