it would appear that sqrt(35*250) is a very small number indeed. eyes must have locked onto 2kv ac and called it a day.
the relay timer circuit is also proving to have some issues, oddly enough math related. starting to see a trend here and scrap status for the overall project attempt is lurching ever closer. even after a few ugly-circuit sonic demo's that showed decent performance.
after seeing the limited mounting options will need to go in a different direction with a few things. since the pre b+ resistors need something better and the other locations (b- at 100r 35w, a+ at 0.20r 35w, bias core at 250r 35w) will be much closer to 100v or less (still useful), more parts shopping needed with a side order of punch to the face (for designer/shopper).
so a pair of 250r power resistors and few other miscellaneous items will be on the list. should also update the 555 schematic to include 1n4148 across the relay, in case of coil kickback even though none was measured (dmm min/max mode).