On my Frankenstein protection board in the original receiver, I pulled R12 and started increasing resistance in its place. I went from the original 10K up to 50K, then finally left it open. During this whole process, the relay would generally engage, but would let go as soon as the DMM probe was put on pin 7 of the PA3004 to check for proper voltage. Next, I pulled R11 and started decreasing resistance while checking the AC voltage to the PA3004. I ended up just jumpering the resistor out completely. At that point, I finally got the relay to engage and stay that way, even when I probed pin 7 of the PA3004. To sum it up, I have R12 removed and R11 jumpered. The voltage on pin 7 of the PA3004 has never really changed much from .65vac during all of this - it might have varied a few hundredths of a volt, but no more than that. Strange that I didn't see more of a voltage deviation, but it looks like R8 has the biggest voltage drop across it, and I didn't make any changes there.