I would put "sometimes" in front of this, and end with "Remember, you find what you look for in other people."
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Good question.
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DeadRock
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...and most of the worlds problems occur when people fail to see themselves in what they have "looked for" (projected onto) others...
If humans were meant to be vegan, our eyes would be on the sides of our heads instead of the front and we would be eaten by predators a lot. I'll let y'all think about that.
Sometimes it's necessary to remove a person from your life. This is NOT about holding a grudge. You can forgive and be at peace while no longer giving someone the opportunity to hurt you more.
Quadman2
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Did you know SjJ, that teachers eventually develop eyes in the back of their heads?
Just part of the "Darwin Syndrome"!
Adaption.
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"Let's not count our horses before they hatch!"
Well, if I ever see horses hatching, I will have all of my food and beverages tested to see if someone slipped acid or shrooms in it.
Quadman2
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Aren't you putting the cart before the horse on this one, Mr. B.
Just don't ask me what I meant by this, eh?
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I find it to be true probably 75% of the time. There are those who rub me the wrong way at first and later grow on me. There are also those who I like at first and then see their true colors and it ain't pretty.
"You make your mind up on a person in the first two minutes, and it rarely changes after that."
So, it's a waste of energy to fake anything — unless you plan to have only one brief encounter with everyone.
And those people do the same on their first encounter with you.
So, it's a waste of energy to fake anything — unless you plan to have only one brief encounter with everyone.
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If I had made the meme.....AND thought of it....
Yes, it definitely works both ways."You make your mind up on a person in the first two minutes, and it rarely changes after that."
And those people do the same on their first encounter with you.
So, it's a waste of energy to fake anything — unless you plan to have only one brief encounter with everyone.
Quadman2
Lunatic Member
"You make your mind up on a person in the first two minutes, and it rarely changes after that."
And those people do the same on their first encounter with you.
So, it's a waste of energy to fake anything — unless you plan to have only one brief encounter with everyone.
sjJ...the your "second thought train", sounds like a lot of marriages I have seen take place.
Always felt that there should be a "pre-nuptial test" be given with a sit-down with a counselor afterwards.
But some would cheat on the answers. But there are ways to create tests that get to the matter (concepts) without most not knowing that they are contradicting themselves.
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Some people change with time. Sometimes they change a lot. So, you'd need periodic tests to update the situation.
Side note: In my experience, dogs have remained the same. Even when they get old and tired.
DeadRock
Ideas Guy
Funny...coincidently I've been thinking quite a bit about aging and changing lately. I can honestly say that the way I look at the world now, is very different from the way I looked at the world only a few short years ago. Other than retirement...no significant lifestyle or health changes have occurred for me...but I have recognized a deeper awareness of the "tinkering" attitude adjusting, position changes and bouts of embarrassment vis a vis past behaviour(s), wrong assumptions and flawed theories I've held and acted on over the course of my life. People who tell me they haven't changed much over the course of their lives make me sad and or freak me out...
