Yeah, I do know the jelly feeling....Yes, and I believe Phantomrebel said as much, that mixing 15-S-3 and 15-S-9 essentially gives you the equivalent of 15-S-7.....see here:
1. Tergitol 15-S series (Dow Chemicals) [1]. This series of Tergitols are versatile, biodegradable, non-ionic detergents based on secondary alcohol ethoxylates. They all have the same tail, an up to 15 carbon atom long, Secondary substituted alcohol (= 15-S). They differ in the degree of ethoxylation (number of hydrophilic ethylene oxide groups at the polar head). Hence, 15-S-3 contains 3 ethylene oxide units and 15-S-9 has 9. Given this, one can conclude the S-3 is more hydrophobic (has less polar content) than the S-9. Not surprisingly, 15-S-3 is more active against oily contaminants than S-9, but it isn’t soluble in water. 15-S-7 is right in the middle of being water soluble yet active against oils while maintaining good rinseability and is therefore a great choice for record cleaning [2]. It’s cloud point (37 C) is also just above the temperature where it is typically used which is also advantageous.* That said, some people combine S-3 with S-9 to get a soluble mixture, with the goal of having a cleaner that is active towards a broader range of contaminants. The only drawback here is that excess S-3 will adhere stronger to the record (via hydrophobic interactions).
The United States Library of Congress recommends a solution of Tergitol 15-S-7 for cleaning of old phonograph records whereas the Canadian Conservation Institute recommends a mixture of Tergitol 15-S-3 and Tergitol 15-S-9 [3]. An acceptable range of Tergitol in cleaning solutions is 0.01-0.1%. The higher range would be for hand-cleaning, lower in the range is used in mechanical cleaning devices. Tergitols are useful in ultrasonic cleaning tanks as their foam is low and collapses rapidly.
And yes, I firmly believe that experience will make things much more clear for you as to whether or not your formulation has delivered on your expectations. It's good to have a well-thought-through starting point, however, and from your posts valicious that seems to be what you are trying to determine.