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Why is good audio a man thing?

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A lot of it comes down to simple interest --or lack of it-- which has "cave man"survival roots, as mentioned above.

My wife once asked me, "Why do you need all this gear, with all these buttons and knobs? Why not just on, off, and volume?" To her, things like mute switches, tone controls, etc... were all just so much confusing distraction. No need for them! :no:

For a long time, I could tell when I came home and looked at the gear, that she had been listening to music. A lot of settings would be randomly, senselessly off-base. She would just turn knobs until she got what she wanted, instead of looking and thinking about what the knobs did. No matter how many times I tried to explain it, she wouldn't learn. Had zero interest. It was almost as if NOT learning confirmed her opinion/position that the knobs were useless.

It wasn't that she couldn't learn. :no: I got her a big-screen plasma TV that she wanted, to watch her favorite TV shows on. I even put a silly little dangle thing on the remote, with her name on it, to make it "specially for her". I was shocked at how quickly she picked up/figured out/remembered how to make IT work. I'd go to sleep leaving it connected to the broadband movie channel decoder, with the sound muted and sent through wireless headphones. The next day when she wanted to watch the local free-to-air TV broadcasts through the TV's own speakers, it would take her no time at all to get it all correct, without screwing things up. She learned quickly, when SHE WANTED TO.

Why do men like knobs and controls and machinery? We probably evolved to, because learning to make tools and weapons gave us a survival advantage. We needed keen ears as hunters and when out in the fields away from the village, where we were also more exposed to predator attacks, etc... Women had less need for either of these things, staying closer to the village, making nothing more complex than perhaps a bowl, and largely protected by the numbers, sounds and smells of a whole encampment. They needed better social skills, nursing skills, etc... --which they generally have (compared to men). A plausible, even probable explanation, although we may never know the truth.

Or perhaps it is simply a reflection of how higher testosterone levels affect the development of the brain? That would be a simpler and logical answer, which might also explain why not all men like audio and some women do (testosterone levels vary within each sex, too, and women do have SOME testosterone). But even if this is true, it doesn't negate the above explanation; perhaps both are true simultaneously. I don't know, lacking any research into this.
 
I met a girl who was into the same music as me, almost exactly. Seemed interested in stereo's and such, liked cars to. Really nice, a model, also had a border collie. Man that would have been awesome, but I never even got a chance to ask her out. That's not really going into details, so this probably seems trivial, but I regret not asking her every time I think about it. Haven't found another yet.


......annnyyywaaay....point is, they are out there. Just gotta find them
 
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My wife once asked me, "Why do you need all this gear, with all these buttons and knobs? Why not just on, off, and volume?" To her, things like mute switches, tone controls, etc... were all just so much confusing distraction. No need for them! :no:

I hate purists !!! Ha !!
 
It's quite simple, women don't like competition from other women, nor anything else that takes attention away from themselves. When they're away, you should be miserable and when they're in the house, you're supposed to only listen to them.

Where do you think that the stereo fits into this scenario?

Best Regards,
TerryO
 
It's quite simple, women don't like competition from other women, nor anything else that takes attention away from themselves. When they're away, you should be miserable and when they're in the house, you're supposed to only listen to them.

Where do you think that the stereo fits into this scenario?

Best Regards,
TerryO

Annnnd ... scene!
 
It's quite simple, women don't like competition from other women, nor anything else that takes attention away from themselves. When they're away, you should be miserable and when they're in the house, you're supposed to only listen to them.

Where do you think that the stereo fits into this scenario?

Best Regards,
TerryO

This. :thmbsp:
(It's all that dial, knob and button twiddlin' envy, plain and simple.....and i'm almost 18 years married.)
 
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Men are all nerds, all happy men atleast. We are stereo nerds, there are Train nerds, stamp nerds, coin nerds, sports nerds, car nerds, even tough guy bikers are just nerds in leather with bad hygiene. So when we like something we go to an extreme, plus most just like gadgets and something to show off.
Women sometimes have a hobby but mostly they are just casual enjoyers of many things but never get crazy about one thing and many times when they do they can need help. Think of the cat lady, complulsive shoppers and such.
 
Thinking back on things my fathers wife must have been into audio stuff. My dad ran a DJ service back in the day and he had plates made up for their cars that read "djlady" since they ran the business together.

As for my mother she's neutral, doesn't care much either way.
 
i have been in a womens cave!! but we are talkin music, my wonderfull woman will sit and watch zeppelin concert footage and loves good sound,but women are smart,they leave the tech stuff to the men, because men like that stuff. have you ever opened your car hood on a sunday afternoon,and had the neighborhood women crowd around, beer in hand, to look at your engine and give advice, same deal, men and women are different, and thats awesome!!!!
 
Yea Women aren't machinest, Woman aren't into things like electricity and electronic's and other GUY stuff


But are you clueless.

WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK BUILT THE 300,000 AIRPLANES THE US PRODUCED IN WW II

WHO do you think left hand tin snips were made for? WOMEN since more women are left handed then men.

WHO do you think wired the Liberty ships.

WHO do you think did all the other stuff Women did and still do

Ever walk into a clean room in a chip manufacturer?

Ever wonder who built those O scopes that made Techtronic's famous.


The truth is they just have better things to do then hang around here pissing into the wind about $1500.00 cables and which generation on Mullard Tube sounds best.

Or comparing how big their woofers are.
 
I must have a one in a million wife. Not only does she appreciate good sound, she is very proud of her Pioneer A8, Kenwood TT, Sansui SP-X9 Hawaiian Pine speakers and Pioneer PD-M450 CDP. If I get too much air time with my mainly NAD setup, she will remind me that her equipment deserves equal time. However, she doesn't have the same obsessiveness that I have of continuing to upgrade or experience.
 
I think in general, women are less intrigued by technical things. Not that they couldn't understand complex technical details, I just think it usually doesn't interest them.

Yup. Without sounding condescending, women that I've known are just happy to have things as they are, without knowing the why. If it works, who cares how and why it works?

Women want to impress visually. Guys want something that sounds great and don't care about much about how it physical 'looks', but if it looks great, so much the better!

A bit of an over generalisation, but pretty much accurate. Some men do really appreciate beautiful things though.

Dave
 
Apples and oranges! Appreciation of good sound and tweaking equipment are two different things. Florence in her younger days was a great colleratura suprano, hell she sang her way through college on music scholarships, and I can assure you she appreciates good sound as do I.

Why do I fool around with equipment? How else can I get good stuff like we have on a pensioner's income. And yes I do care what it looks like, that's why I learned how to veneer cases and such.
 
It's quite simple, women don't like competition from other women, nor anything else that takes attention away from themselves. When they're away, you should be miserable and when they're in the house, you're supposed to only listen to them.

Where do you think that the stereo fits into this scenario?

Best Regards,
TerryO

Right on!!! :thmbsp::thmbsp::D

Regards.
 
A lot of it comes down to simple interest --or lack of it-- which has "cave man"survival roots, as mentioned above.

My wife once asked me, "Why do you need all this gear, with all these buttons and knobs? Why not just on, off, and volume?" To her, things like mute switches, tone controls, etc... were all just so much confusing distraction. No need for them! :no:

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She has a point. That is how a lot of new gear is. All that stuff is a distraction and all those switches do degrade the sound.
 
Ya, purist gear was never just a fad. I fall prey to ; "Oh look ! I can play just the right or left channel". "Oh, look ! I can cue the arm with this thing" !!
 
Yea Women aren't machinest, Woman aren't into things like electricity and electronic's and other GUY stuff


But are you clueless.

WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK BUILT THE 300,000 AIRPLANES THE US PRODUCED IN WW II

WHO do you think left hand tin snips were made for? WOMEN since more women are left handed then men.

WHO do you think wired the Liberty ships.

WHO do you think did all the other stuff Women did and still do

Ever walk into a clean room in a chip manufacturer?

Ever wonder who built those O scopes that made Techtronic's famous.


The truth is they just have better things to do then hang around here pissing into the wind about $1500.00 cables and which generation on Mullard Tube sounds best.

Or comparing how big their woofers are.
Hear, hear!
 
It is simple men need things like cars and stereo equipment to compensate of certain inadequacies. Women have no such need.

I think men tend to compartmentalize their time and hence have time to play and play and play and any time left over to play. Most women I know sadly tend to either have jobs and then work the rest of the remaining 24 hours or simply work 24/7 and have no time to play.

I did know one woman who was REALLY into the equipment side of things and had not problem demanding a salesperson pull the cover to see the guts as well as spend hours pouring over the journals, listening and doing and redoing her system, even designing her home to be an open concept and built to enhance it as a component of the system. She was a perfect mate for any audio enthusiest except for one minor detail - she was a lesbian. She was also a looker. A few years ago, I wondered if she might not have been a perfect mate even with that one negative. It might have been an interesting arrangement.
 
So far the general theme has been equipment. What if men get music differently? What is the percentage of male composers verses female composers:scratch2: How many women can sit and listen to music by the hour night in night out:scratch2:
 
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