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Without the wife what would stop u

I've shifted over the past year from being more of a collector'/hoarder type to whittling down to a "quality over quantity" connoisseur. I was saying that ("quality over quantity") for a while before I actually started practicing it, but the change has occurred.

I pass up on good stuff much more often than I used to, although I also find less good stuff than I used to (the market supply of really good stuff is way, way, way off what it was a couple years back). I am divesting and de-cluttering.

What changed for me was a psychological shift. Before, I envisioned a nice collection, with racks of great gear. Now, I envision a simpler, cleaner environment with fewer pieces, but each piece a "masterpiece" that is functionally, visually and cosmetically excellent.

These days, I'd rather 'collect' vinyl than gear, although upgrading gear is still always on the agenda. But even with the vinyl, I want quality over quantity. I'm getting much pickier about the quality and condition of what records I want to keep.

Yes, the wife is a factor in this; she will be happier in a house with less gear, and making her happy ultimately means more to me than my selfish collecting obsession (although I won't give it up entirely, either. Fortunately, I don't have to).

What ultimately limits me, and has mostly changed me, is simply that I live in an apartment with finite space. I reached the point where the amount of gear I had was more than I could comfortably store in the home. When something exceeds a reasonable space for it, it becomes CLUTTER, even if by itself it is a fine thing. Clutter is BAD. So I'm gradually getting rid of even some pretty good stuff. The stuff that remains will be all the better for being accessible and usable and able to be fully appreciated. Along the way, I'm having fun, learning, and helping take tired old gear and turn it into fixed-up stuff that is bringing pleasure to new owners. When I make a profit on a resale, it allows me to upgrade and to experience more/different gear. Not a bad thing, at all.
 
My wife loves me and wants me to have whatever makes me happy. :banana:

Although, for a while I had to buy her jewelry of equal value to make things fair. :yes:

She's way behind these days as she loves movies and music almost as much as I do, so I can make the argument that audio purchases are for the both of us, unlike her jewelry.:deal:

The economy and kids in college are what is holding me back these days.
 
If I were single the entire house would be a mancave and I would drown in audio addiction with waaaaay more stuff than I have even now...she's still waiting for me to grow up:D Good luck with that honey!

J.R.
 
arkay - as I have just reacquainted myself with real audio again, I am at the moment a quantity guy - but even now I find myself wanting to just get started and finish up some nice lil projects I have laying around. I would imagine quite a few people who are either just starting out or have been away for a long a time and are getting back into it , find themselves pretty much along the same path you are taking - 1st it was so cool finding all of these great and not so great vintage pieces - I think for me it was even the adrenaline of the find - but I see myself slowing down quite a bit and concentrating on perfecting what I have - tho those may be famous last words . I felt this way last week but still ended up trotting home a pair of magnepans - I have just stopped even looking at CL to keep me from being tempted.
Not sure I am going the minimalist route, but no longer see a need for a garage full of gear no matter how good it is.
 
Nothing would change here. I'm lucky to have a wife that doesn't mind this sickness. I'm usually the one bitchin about the room that the extra units take up. I also dislike having a vintage collection just for the sake of having one.
 
There's an old joke.
Q; What do you buy for the man who has everything?
A; Somewhere to keep it!
space is the limiting factor in our life. In the past I never thew out Hi Fi i had replaced and there was always the vintage stuff going cheap in junk shops market stalls ect ect.
Recently I had to 'Donate' quite a lot of gear to charity ( Sigh) due entirely to lack of space.
 
Well, the simple fact that I wouldn't have the second income if not for her would put a damper on things....and I wouldn't get much enjoyment out of anything without her companionship anyway.
 
If I wasn't married I doubt I would even have a house. I would most likely be renting somewhere. As to this hobby without my wife introducing me to a Quality Stereo system I would no doubt still be happy with my Pioneer SK-21 Boom box.

She came with a real nice 1974 Pioneer SX-3000 receiver (Military sale only version of the SX-626) a decent Onkyo turntable and a pair of Sonic 3 way speakers. Granted it took another 22 years before I took it up as a hobby but if not fo her I'd still be Street racing and covered in Grease no doubt.

And if I lost her now I'd be lucky to get out of bed.

You big softy .... I applaud your courage in admitting that your wife got you into quality stereos .... Not many would do that even if true :thmbsp:

You got character:smoke:
 
I'm currently single, and the hooks have already been set in to deep. I don't think anything could stop me from looking.

I've finally gotten around to selling stuff, but have to admight that's Its not easy. I'll never be able to stop looking for new stuff.
 
Free stuff is ok, so long as I have room for it. However, thinking of all the really nice stuff I could have bought with the money that went for small stuff and the cost of storing everything has put a damper on it. That, and I don't have much time for it, lately.
 
OK,OK. Granted, my wife has no interest in stereo gear. She also doesn't enjoy listening to it. Lastly, she does not want decent sized speakers in our living room. I have gear in a smaller listening room 12x14, a study 12x12, and gear in my basement which is unheated and unfinished. If I didn't have my wife, I would have a bigger system in my living room and be totally miserable and empty inside. I'm happy to put up without the system.
 
Personally, it's all a matter of room, but when you find a goodie you just have to have, but have no room for it, you MAKE room! And you get rid of some crap.

And I do like to collect stuff, but I also like to use it. I'm not one to have a big stack of recievers in storage just collecting dust. I like to use all my stuff, or at least perform triage; have the best stuff in use, and the crappier stuff put away somewhere, in case something breaks down.

in fact, here's an example. I have a 30 year old RCA XL-100 25" console TV in use, in favour of a 5 year old RCA 19" tabletop set, which I have stashed behind the furnace LOL, the console has a weak CRT, but I can't just let this beauty sit somewhere not being used.
 
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My wife supports me %100 in everything I do. She likes big speakers and hard driving rock and roll..I'm a happy man.
 
All that would stop me is the neighbors calling the cops..

Since I like big speakers, and lots of power, I don't have a worry about having 30TTs or 50 recievers or 500 RTRs... I got a worry of huge speakers, and serious amps...

Even then, it may not be the neighbors as much as it would be the electirc service.

My wife is all that keeps me from being like Analong Addict or Powerman.
 
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