It would be great to go through the crossover you guys are using and provide a chart of R1/R2 values. If I have some time, I'll try to get around to doing that. You've already made two versions of the crossover, so your chart now includes two value pairs. Maybe now would be a good time to add a few to the list.
Don't be confused, 'cause your crossovers use different values than mine. But again, the topology is the same and the intended results are the same. They're pretty much interchangable crossovers. So you might look at the chart of values I have for the Pi crossover:
If you use my crossover, the chart shows the values of R1 and R2 required for various amounts of attenuation from 6dB to 20dB. I'm not advocating you use my crossover, although the results should be the same. But I am suggesting that you might want to add some additional chart entries. I had the same situation you have here - A desire to make my crossover useful with various woofers. So I made a chart for reference, to allow for flexibility just like you guys need here.
The values must be selected with Spice or with careful measurements. It really is not enough to scale the R1/R2 values. You can move them an ohm or two, but if you need to change much more than that, it
really helps to have some visibility, the kind of visibility only Spice or measurement equipment can provide. It is easy, almost expected, that to blindly change R1/R2 values can modify the shape of the curve, perhaps causing an unwanted dip or peak in response.
If you look over the chart of values I use in my crossover, you can see the progression of values that result in the right response. I would expect the same kind of ratios would be useful in your crossover.
The thing is this: There is a balance that must be struck with the values of R1 and R2. If you increase R1, you tend to increase attenuation. If you increase R2, you tend to reduce attenuation, particularly near the crossover frequency. If R2 is too large, a peak forms near the crossover frequency. If R2 is too small, then the octave or so around crossover is too low. So R1 and R2 must be chosen that provide the desired attenuation
and provide this transfer
shape: