I do this with SANTANAI’m guessing all those shows you use to go to and your ears would still be ringing the next morning. I’d say that’s when damage was taking place. So 120dB’s? If you’re asking about how loud you pay your stereo I can handle maybe 100dB’s for a song but only after I’ve been drinking some tasty cocktails and a great Hall and Oats song comes on

you can still hear her so not loud enough?When the Mrs. is screaming at you to turn that **** down, and you can't hear her, it's probably too loud.
I stopped attending concerts in my early twenties that required ear plugs. Kinda counter productive for my objective!I've always worn ear protection at live music events ..
[29 CFR 1910.95(i)(1)], OSHA requires that: Employers shall make hearing protectors available to all employees exposed to an 8-hour time-weighted average of 85 decibels or greater at no cost to the employees. Hearing protectors shall be replaced as necessary.
We listen at mid 80's with peaks into the mid 90's when sitting down for a critical listen.