Well, as far, Mike Watt and/or the Missing Men, or other DIY/Indie bands wanting to sell out stadiums, I would recommend reading "Our Band Could Be Your Life" to get a small perspective on this (and before jumping to conclusions) and the growth of DIY out of distaste for what was happening to rock n roll/marketing commercialism, control, excess, etc, in the 60's/70's, among other things.
"All Over but the Shouting" is another good read.
No, not everyone/band has a interest in selling out a stadium, believe it or not, for varying reasons.
Each band of course is different, and has their own demons, and their ideas of success, financially and musically.
IMHO there in no one size fit's all.
That's the beauty of music, and other forms of art IMHO.
Some of us might also feel a portion of popular music in the past and present was more of a sales pitch/marketing venture then music, but that's besides the point. If you like it great, if not great as well-whatever works.
Again my first point was selling out a stadiums has little to do with a rock n roll bands overall success, and it doesn't even guarantee financial success-more then a few examples here.
Financial success has different levels as well, just like all walks of life, and can't always be measured purely with a supply and demand curve, or even a a balance sheet.
Perhaps your opinion of (overall) success of a band is selling out stadiums, or the supply and demand curve, and you are entitled to you opinion. I and I'm sure others disagree in part, but I can see your point as well.
I don't see the problem here.
Hard to say if people will really care, or measure their success on weather the Stones sold out Shea Stadium 1989, in 100 years or not. Or how much money they netted on the Tattoo You Tour. Probably the body of work I would say.
It would be interesting to peek in on that, especially if there was a lack of heavy commercial promoting of music, and people were more "left on their own" to make musical choices.
Music, like art are really measured in varying degrees of success, especially over a period of time, and it's very hard IMHO to put a universal stamp on it. Be it a supply and demand, balance sheet, what have you. It may be convenient, but IMHO I don't think it's totally accurate.
And second, that rock n roll is still going strong, IMHO to a large part do to the easy, inexpensive way bands can control their own musical, and financial destiny-DIY so there is really no need for them to sell out these large venues anyway.
Rock n roll is alive and well IMHO, I saw so many good shows this year, IMHO yes it is. And not just rehashed re-releases-new stuff.
By the way, I don't think I was quoting anything directly by Jack Lord till this post-so nothing to take personal or defend directly-even if you do disagree with part of my take, as it's just my opinion.